Safer first meetup checklist

Before you go

• Choose a public, familiar place with other people around.
• Arrange transportation you control.
• Tell a trusted person where you plan to be and when you expect to finish.
• Keep personal addresses and sensitive details private until you choose otherwise.
• Review how to block, report, or contact support.

During the meetup

• Keep your phone available and charged.
• Respect stated boundaries and any decision to leave.
• Do not treat chat, an RSVP, or a reveal as consent to anything else.
• If circumstances change, move to a safer public setting or leave.

Check-In template

Share: who you are meeting, the public location, the expected end time, and what your trusted contact should do if you miss the agreed check-in. PostLane is not an emergency service and cannot confirm that a contact received or acted on information.

If you need urgent help

Contact local emergency services or another appropriate local resource. Use PostLane report and support tools for platform concerns, but do not wait for an in-app response during an emergency.

Summary

Choose a public place, control your transportation, share the plan with someone you trust, respect boundaries, and leave when a situation no longer feels right. PostLane tools can support these choices but cannot guarantee safety.