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Choice private
Reveal moreMUTUAL CONSENT
Talk first. Reveal only when both people choose.
Conversation can continue while protected profile details remain private. Reveal happens only after two separate, current choices agree.
Two choices.
One reveal.
A request never exposes the other person’s private answer. Decline needs no public explanation. Chat can continue while the request is pending.
PRIVATE BY DEFAULT
A request can wait. A no can stay private.
Available → requested / waiting → accepted by both, declined, expired, canceled, or unavailable. Only the accepted-by-both state reveals protected detail.